there is no fee for these events. and if it’s your first time attending, there is no donation requested, either. however, if you choose to come back for other parties, i DO ask for a donation.
you see, for these events i supply condoms, lube, bottled water, and trash bags. of course, i’m also supplying a private, clean apartment. there’s a good vibe in the air - it’s comfortable, with excellent music, nice lighting, and great design.
to cover costs for these things, as well as clean up afterwards, i ask for a donation of $20 - $40 per person. you can give as much or as little as you like, within the suggested range. just so you know, i spend a TON of time recruiting for these and then pulling them together, and of course i am not paid for my time. i am not looking to make money, but neither am i looking to lose money (i am giving up work time each day i have an event.) i request that you donate generously, in proportion to your income, and with a concept towards the value of this. i mean, it’s a very unique party... you’re going to have a great time. think: what is THAT worth to you?
um... tell me, what's with the trash bags?
if you’re getting naked, you can take a plastic trash bag and put your clothes in it. write your name on the bag, tie it up, and your stuff will be safely stowed.
i’m still stuck on the idea of giving a donation...
that’s why i won’t request one of you for your first event. i know that if you come once, you’ll very likely want to come again. i also think by attending one of these, you’ll quickly realize the donation is minimal compared with what you get out of it. try one out - and see for yourself that these parties really are hot. you’ll be entering a scene with good looking, in-shape, open minded guys - can things get much better?
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